๐Ÿ”๏ธ the Springs ๐Ÿ™๏ธ

Back in 2006, as our time in Ireland โ˜˜๏ธ was coming to an end, we had a unique opportunity. We opened a large map ๐Ÿ—บ๏ธ of the U.S. & asked ourselves, “If we could live anywhere, where would we want that to be?โ€ We had a short list of criteria… 

  • Four seasons ๐Ÿโ„๏ธ๐ŸŒธ๐ŸŒณ
  • Outdoor recreation ๐ŸŽฟ๐Ÿ”๏ธ
  • Good for ballooning ๐Ÿ‘
  • Smaller town/city (than Austin, ABQ or Dallas) ๐ŸŒƒ
  • A place we could raise our kids thru HS ๐ŸŽตโš›๏ธ
  • Decent airport to support Daveโ€™s work travel โœˆ๏ธ
  • Close to family in DFW/ABQ but not too close ๐Ÿ˜‰ ๐Ÿ›ป

We had friends in Denver, but Denver was too big๐ŸŒ† We didnโ€™t want to move back to Texas because it was too hot๐Ÿฅต Daveโ€™s company, at the time, was in Minneapolis but that was too cold๐Ÿฅถ So we began to focus on Colorado Springs.

At the time, Colorado Springs was less than 400,000 people. It sat in the shadow of Pikeโ€™s Peak at the southern end of the Front Range mountain โ›ฐ๏ธ It had four seasons & tons of outdoor adventures, including ballooning, with it’s own local balloon club! There was a decent airport๐Ÿ›ซ It was only half a dayโ€™s drive to Albuquerque & a long day to Dallas.

Dave & I made one quick trip there on a stateside visit while we still lived in Ireland.โ˜˜๏ธ The decision was made. Colorado Springs would be our next home. When we returned that summer, we bought a house, at what would then be the most expensive market at the most expensive rate.๐Ÿ ๐Ÿ“ˆ

Our house was better than a fixer-upper, although we would remodel most of it over the next 16 years. It was at the top of a cul-de-sac, on a hill, looking northwest towards the mountains & the Air Force Academy off the back deck. The neighborhood was very close-knit & they took us in immediately. We were welcomed with groceries & homemade cookies & a neighborhood barbecue. Over the next 16 years, there would be dozens of barbecues. Neighbor teens would babysit our kids & later Erin would babysit other neighbor kids. We would walk together through births, graduations, marriages, health scares, job losses & death. 

We lived on Lange, longer than we lived anywhere & longer than all the other places combined. Andrew really grew up there, from 5yrs old to 22. He is nearly a Colorado native. He became best friends with the boy next door, they are roommates now, still living in Colorado Springs, not far from his boyhood home.

I guess you might ask, โ€œIf it was so great, why did you leave?โ€ Well, if youโ€™ve been following along, you may have noticed, I donโ€™t sit still very well. By the time we had settled on Lange, we had lived in seven other cities, in three different states & two different countries, in ten years time.

Leaving was bittersweet. People ask what I miss most about being on the road? My answer, hanging out with friends. Although, many friends have visited us along the way & traveling has allowed us to see other friends & make new friends. 

Colorado Springs feels the closest to a hometown as l ever had. Sure, I grew up in Dallas & lived there for 19 years. Dallas was my childhood home. Colorado Springs was & will always be, our familyโ€™s hometown. It just took us a while to get there. Then just like that, it was time to go.

I remember this Texas girl panicking at the first 6 foot snowstorm. I remember spinning out on the icy roads & running into a brick mailbox nearly totaling our Pathfinder. It would be a couple of years before I got back to snow skiing. Then it became what we did over the winters. Summers we spent hot air ballooning around the state. Pueblo, Frederick, Westminster, Craig, Steamboat, Grand Junction, Castle Rock & of course, Colorado Springs. We covered most of the state many times over, yet never made it down to the southwest corner.

It would be 2020,๐Ÿฆ  the year that time forgot or made us forget time, when we finally โ€œdiscoveredโ€ another Springs, Pagosa Springs.  For us & a group of rag tag ballooning friends, 2020 would be deemed the year of the Bummer Summer tour. Any other year, balloon rallies would have gotten under way sometime in May & lasted well into December, but not 2020. CANCELED or POSTPONED would keep us grounded, or would it? We would choose a handful of beautiful places, reach out to local pilots, pick a date & pay our own way. (Rallies usually provide pilots with accommodations & propane.) Pagosa was first on the list (followed by South Dakota, Utah & Pike’s Peak!)

We partnered with the local ride company, Rocky Mountain Balloon Adventures. The owner/operator Austin gave us the lay of the land. We may have gone rogue but we had every intention of respecting the flying area.  We had a dozen balloons, celebrated 3 birthdays ๐ŸŽ‚ including Andrewโ€™s & Austinโ€™s. We just about took over the local hotel.  We tubed down the San Juan river & Mama Linda made friends with the local swan ๐Ÿฆข. The flights were spectacular. The views from above even more so.

It wouldnโ€™t be until the next year, when we came down to fly again, that Pagosa really captured us. Nestled down the road from Wolf Creek Pass & the Continental Divide, this time in the shadow of Pagosa Peak & the San Juan Mountains ๐Ÿ”๏ธ a (sometimes) raging river runs through a county of less than 14K residents (twice that during tourist season, May-Oct) Visit Pagosa!

Pagosa Springs also host the โ€œWorldโ€™s Deepest Hot Springs!โ€

Pagosa is also surrounded by the San Juan & Rio Grande National Forests. Hiking is literally out the back door. Box canyons, waterfalls & panoramic views delight in every direction. 

Downtown Pagosa itself is built along the San Juan River. Less than 2500 residents live within the town boundaries. Many more live up Putt Hill in the area of Uptown. Uptown boasts the one Walmart & a City Market. Uptown grew up around vacation time shares built decades ago around Piรฑon Lake Reservoir & are now run by Wyndham. Uptown Pagosa also boasts one of the largest HOAs in the country.๐Ÿ‡บ๐Ÿ‡ธ  We still have yet to decide if that is a good or bad thing.๐Ÿ˜ฌ

Our first AirBnB host, a Colorado native from Denver who had lived most of his adult life in Pagosa told us a great story about the growth of the town & surrounding area… 

Who remembers Officer Poncherello? 

Apparently, some years or decades ago, actor, Erik Estrada worked with a real estate company, making infomercials to sell land in then obscure & unknown areas of California, Arkansas, Washington & Colorado. The tourist board or time share company advertised in Arkansas, Oklahoma & Texas. If a person called the 1-800 number, they could avail of the deal, free or super cheap. They would be flown into Durango, shuttled to Pagosa & then shown property to purchase. At this point, Pagosa was a sleepy little farming/ranching community, 45 minutes down the road from the, then & still, private/family owned Wolf Creek ski area. Acres were sold for less than $1000 a piece!

The actual population of the town & area have not grown much but Pagosa is now a tourist destination. With many second homes & over 500+ short term rentals, Pagosa Springs is anything but obscure.

We found it late, but found it we did ๐Ÿ˜‰ We have since spent more & more of our time in Pagosa. We have made amazing new friends & get a bit better lay of the land every time we are there. We have hiked, tubed, rafted, sat on the patio of many a local eatery & skied.โ›ท๏ธ With every visit, we get a little closer to calling it home.๐Ÿก

Stateside ๐Ÿ‡บ๐Ÿ‡ธ

Our near six months in Mexico ๐Ÿ‡ฒ๐Ÿ‡ฝ was everything we had hoped for & if you have been following along, so much more! Would we do it again? Absolutely! 

We traded the slow pace of Mexico for the the hustle & bustle of big box stores & doctors appointments. There is a whole subject for another time, “healthcare & life on the road!โ€

Ole Black Betty was a sight for sore eyes after squatty little overpriced hatchbacks in Mexico ๐Ÿš˜

These are the times we call, the rejig! They are not particularly exciting times, just a part of this travel process that has to get done. Thankfully, that meant a quick trip to Colorado Springs. We visited our stuff in storage & unpacked & repacked a few things. I squeezed in a game of โ›ณ๏ธ with my gal pal & we did our first official stateside, Trusted Housesitter sit for a hilariously mismatched set of pups ๐Ÿถ

Prints & Peanut. Can you guess which one was the alpha?  Nearly every morning of our 10 day stay, I woke to Prints hovering over me, standing with his paws on the bedside. It could have seemed a bit daunting but he was in fact just a big lovable baby. Prints & Peanut were inseparable & sometimes bickered like teenage siblings ๐Ÿคฃ  It took them about a day to warm up to us being their temporary humans & stop searching the house for their mom.

They were patient, allowing me my morning coffee before heading out on a walk. This was my first encounter with a double lead, which was far better than the two singles even when Dave & I walked them together. Did I mention they are inseparable? ๐Ÿ˜‰ Peanut kept up well with Prints & Prints seemed to hold back a bit as not to just drag Peanut along. The double lead included a waist belt which meant no tug-of-war on my arms & shoulders. They were sweet cuddle bugs who just wanted all our attention.

The opportunity was good confirmation that pet/house sitting was something worth pursuing. By the end of the summer, we would have half a dozen sits on our resume & banked $10K in savings, not paying for accommodations across the PNW. 

We settled back into life & headed to Pagosa Springs. Pagosa Springs is a little mountain town in the south west corner of Colorado. Iโ€™m not sure why it took us over a decade to discover this little piece of paradise, but it wasnโ€™t until 2020 in the midst of Covid that we found ourselves there. Pagosa ticked all the boxes of what we wanted next, small town, mountains ๐Ÿ”๏ธ rivers, a few established friends, still close to family & great hot air ballooning. It is currently the closest thing we have to call Home ๐Ÿก We spent six weeks there at the beginning of our adventures in 2022 & have since gone back & forth trying to find our place. 

We thought for sure we had discovered it when, last July, we purchased nearly 7 acres south of town with a meadow, seasonal stream & great view of the mountains. We spent much of our time in Mexico dreaming about building, talking to builders & scribbling out our dream home. We either jumped the gun or missed the boat! Needless to say, we are likely back to square one as the dream house that was well within our budget in 2021 is now almost twice the price. Donโ€™t get me wrong, Iโ€™m well aware itโ€™s a first world problem. 

Although the shine has faded from building, Pagosa Springs continues to be where we want to re-settle when resettling is our thing again ๐Ÿ˜† 

During some of our initial visits, we were incredibly blessed to make new friends in Pagosa. The discovery of mid-life friendships has given even more meaning to this time in our lives. Conversations, that 20 years ago would likely have centered around children & careers, now lean more towards adventures & relationships with each other & ourselves. We are different. We are the same. Some are young, others young at heart โค๏ธ๐Ÿ˜‰ We love to hike & golf & take in the beauty from both where we are headed & whence we came.  Wine ๐Ÿท of course is an added bonus!

So per usual, I am behind the curve on the state of our adventures but moving forward. If you have hung around this long, thanks โ˜บ๏ธ If you are just joining us, welcome! & if you are giving up due to my blathering, lack of punctuation, affinity for run-on sentences & emojis, well, I donโ€™t blame you ๐Ÿ˜œ

๐Ÿ‡ฒ๐Ÿ‡ฝ Unexpected ๐Ÿ‡ฒ๐Ÿ‡ฝ

We saved the best for last! Our last few weekends in Mexico turned out to be a highlight of the whole six month adventure. It didn’t hurt that my birthday was also in the mix ๐ŸŽ‚

I think I can easily say, Cozumel is worth a return trip. Not only is it home to some of the best scuba diving ๐Ÿคฟ in the world, it remains a slightly sleeping island off the coast of the party town Place del Carmen ๐Ÿ–๏ธ

Upon returning to Akumal, I found the most wonderful little in-home restaurant. Probadita’s serves two meals a day, brunch & dinner. By reservation only. 

How do I find these places you might be asking… I open Google maps ๐Ÿ—บ๏ธ & search RESTAURANTS.  Rarely does anything under a 4.5 get a look ๐Ÿ‘€   I read the newest reviews, a couple of 5s, a couple of 1s & a few in the middle. I disregard the irrelevant, like โ€œthey wouldnโ€™t give me the seat I wantedโ€ or โ€œthere was a large group that was really loud.โ€ I want to know how was the food & service ๐Ÿฝ๏ธ I can also put up with subpar service for great food ๐Ÿ™„  For Probadita’s 110  5๐ŸŒŸ reviews was an easy choice! I messaged her through WhatsApp (our go to international texting platform) We made a reservation for my birthday ๐ŸŽ‚

It was an absolute delight! Chef Adel, the owner of Probadita, Spanish for Taste, has been an executive chef at multiple high end resorts & restaurants throughout Mexico & Miami. Chef Adel went above & beyond, even decorating with balloons ๐ŸŽˆ & making an amazing cheesecake ๐ŸŽ‚ She showed me how to make tortillas ๐ŸŒฝ We had lovely conversations in English & Spanish about our families & travels ๐ŸŒŽ She made a five course meal with fresh & local ingredients as we laughed & chatted & enjoyed ๐Ÿ˜Š

If you are ever in the area of Akumal or Tulum, you must give this place a try. You will not be disappointed! You can easily find Adel & Probadita’s on Facebook to make your own reservations. My only regret is that we didn’t have time to make a brunch plans at this wonderful hidden gem ๐Ÿ’Ž

But truly the most spectacularly unexpected spot was Bacalar. Bacalar is a rare undiscovered treasure . This will likely change in the very near future with the opening of the Tulum airport making it much more accessible as it cuts the travel in half, from 4hrs from the Cancun Airport to only 2 ๐Ÿ˜ฌ 

The quiet little town is known for its lake of seven colors. The fresh water lake boasts sandy floors & two cenotes, near the inland coast side.  We hired a sailboat โ›ต๏ธ for the morning & sailed around to the highlights, one of which is a protected bird sanctuary, the Isla de Pรกjaros. Spoonbills, Ibisis & Spatulas make this island their home. The Ibisisโ€™ were very common, but you had to watch patiently to catch a glimpse of the more shy Roseate Spoonbill, which similar to the Flamingo eats krill & is therefore pink ๐Ÿ˜Š If we had been staying longer or when we go back in the future, I would rent a kayak or paddle board instead. The lake is large, but very navigable & deserves a much slower pace.

Bacalar is also the only near coastal town to have a fort, Fuerte de San Felipe de Bacalar. Long ago, pirates dropped anchor in the Bay of Chetumal & made their way through a myriad of lakes & marshes to Bacalar Lagoon to pillage & plunder as they were wont to do.  ๐Ÿดโ€โ˜ ๏ธ 

We took in the scenery & culture at every turn. Dave discovered a sweet treat & may be considering opening a side biz back in the States. The Marquesita is a freshly made crepe/waffle cone taste sensation, filled with your choices of cheese, chocolates & fresh fruit. Marquesitas were a messy & delicious find ๐Ÿ˜‹ 

It was suggested we check out a local venue for an evening of live music. We had every intention of an early night in & then we made friends. We headed out to La Catrina to enjoy a few cocktails & salsa music. The place was near empty when we arrived early but quickly filled to keep the bar tenders busy. At first, we were alone at our tall bar table, but, as the place began to fill, we made room for others, as again, it was our intention to leave soon. I came back to our table from the loo to find Dave chatting with a young fellow. Apparently, he too had gone to NMSU at some point & lived in NM & CO in his youth. We chatted a minute & then offered them our table as we paid our bill. But a connection was made & there were still drinks to be had & as we would come to find out the dance floor awaited ๐Ÿ’ƒ 

Sadly, I do not remember his name, only that he now lives in Santiago, MX. We drank & danced into the wee hours of the night, closing down the place. Once again, we tried to call it a night, but alas we walked through the quiet, sleepy streets in search of the next gathering & ice cream ๐Ÿจ It was nearing 3am, our friend had disappeared into the crowd & we decided it was indeed time for the Irish goodbye. 

We walked back to our hotel, recounted the night, our entire time in Mexico, the amazing people we had met & all the places that deserved a return. Mexico is a part of our hearts โค๏ธ now more than ever. Bacalar, Cozumel, Progreso, Merida, Leon, San Miguel de Allende all have so much more to explore! 

This was a most wonderful experience & I truly long for another extended time in this beautiful country, with is beautiful food & even more beautiful people ๐Ÿ‡ฒ๐Ÿ‡ฝ